Laecaon Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 A much better example of Dubstep. I dont like all dubstep. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcrE4Rl_HJw Rust, sorry this happened. But it seems like you are now planning for the best of the situation which might be all you can do now. Sounds like quite a few guys are interested in getting your car running. Hope it will be soon! Link to comment
Shagy Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 wow. sad story. almost made me cry. Sounds like a failure to communicate!!! 510 $'s stay OUT of joint accounts, OUT of bank accounts..OUT of sight = out of mind. I told my wife about this and she was blown away that she would do it. She asked if your wife knew that the $ was in there for a certain reason. If she knew that you had it in there for something, they she agree's it wasnt right. My wife doesnt like 510's....she agree's with your wife, but she would never blow my money like that. Dubstep...sounds awesome in my car.. That vid of the girl "this is how you dance to dubstep" was so awesome and SO wrong..... Link to comment
littlejason Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 To me, the craziest part is SEVEN days in Vegas?! Link to comment
r0p0doe Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 To me, the craziest part is SEVEN days in Vegas?! Yea seriously, I get burnt out on just 2 days Link to comment
yellowdatsun Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Dude, seriously, SEVEN DAYS in Vegas??? Holy Crap! I've been to Vegas many times, and I can tell you you're totally DONE after 2. So not only are you going to be pissed that you're stuck there for another FIVE, and bored out of your mind, but doubly pissed that it's costing you serious dollars. Also take note, if she's done this once, she WILL do it again. Link to comment
DanielC Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Was there not someone on this board who used to tell his wife, "Honey, I can spend time and money on the Datsuns, or down at the strip club. You make the choice." 1 Link to comment
Skib Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 your new note to self eric :lol: weld lock box into diryest extra shit drawer of the toolbox. this never happens again. Link to comment
Skib Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Was there not someone on this board who used to tell his wife, "Honey, I can spend time and money on the Datsuns, or down at the strip club. You make the choice." yuuuuuuup :lol: Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 18, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 I lioke dub step I bet eric does to ! When if comes to electronic music I'm more into house or drum&bass Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 18, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 To me, the craziest part is SEVEN days in Vegas?! Yup, 7 days 6 nights at the empire suit in the new York new York hotel. It's supposed to be one of the very best rooms. I would have been happy with a bottle of vodka, a tube o lube and motel 6 Link to comment
yellowdatsun Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 May be a nice room, but who goes to Vegas to stay in the room the whole time. In Vegas the whole idea is to NOT stay in the room, which is why we always get the cheapest room available. You're only going to sleep in it. Man, it's not even my money and it pisses me off :) Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 18, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Lol yeah that's my girl, always thinking with my wallet in her hand, I agreed to go, and to have fun with her, I also created a new savings acc just for me and changed my direct deposit to place 100$ from every check into it. I love my wife. I'm not going to waist my hard earned money she spent for this Vegas vaca by bring grumpy an unhappy, because then it's a Totall loss. Link to comment
datzenmike Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Look, this would never have happened if you were both on the same page. Married couples work towards toward common goals. That's the whole point. For some reason she appears to think Canby is unimportant to you, that your Datsun hobby is unimportant to you and that any money seems to be available for a vacation surprise for the both of you. Now where in the wide world of sports would she get an idea like that?????? Assuming that you have made a good choice in a marriage partner, A, and that she loves and cares about you and your relationship, the only thing I can conclude is you, B, are the one who dropped the ball and failed to discuss your hobby/Canby/money properly with her. If A ... then B, and you need to talk this out so it does not happen again because it will and worse. Now, you know your partner best, so if you feel that you and her have a good understanding of each other's needs and wants then I'm at a loss to explain how your loving partner could be so thoughtless and not care to tell you what she was doing. Again you need to talk about this with her and set some rules in place so neither of you are ever in this position again. Shit happens I know, but it shouldn't happen more than once. Marriage is a voluntary giving up of your needs for the greater collective good of the both of you. If you both give, you will both get what you want. 1 Link to comment
danfiveten Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Sleep with a hooker and tell her its her fault when in vegas. If you never would of gotten this vacation i never would of slept with that whore. Link to comment
datzenmike Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Was there not someone on this board who used to tell his wife, "Honey, I can spend time and money on the Datsuns, or down at the strip club. You make the choice." I don't spend that much on my Datsuns but it's the only hobby that I have. Mostly it's my time and if my wife should complain, (a lot less now that she has one!) I always point out that I didn't spend any money or time drinking, gambling or whoring around. The only time I may be unavailable is the middle of June. :lol: Link to comment
Jassifrass Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Look, this would never have happened if you were both on the same page. Married couples work towards toward common goals. That's the whole point. For some reason she appears to think Canby is unimportant to you, that your Datsun hobby is unimportant to you and that any money seems to be available for a vacation surprise for the both of you. Now where in the wide world of sports would she get an idea like that?????? Assuming that you have made a good choice in a marriage partner, A, and that she loves and cares about you and your relationship, the only thing I can conclude is you, B, are the one who dropped the ball and failed to discuss your hobby/Canby/money properly with her. If A ... then B, and you need to talk this out so it does not happen again because it will and worse. Now, you know your partner best, so if you feel that you and her have a good understanding of each other's needs and wants then I'm at a loss to explain how your loving partner could be so thoughtless and not care to tell you what she was doing. Again you need to talk about this with her and set some rules in place so neither of you are ever in this position again. Shit happens I know, but it shouldn't happen more than once. Marriage is a voluntary giving up of your needs for the greater collective good of the both of you. If you both give, you will both get what you want. Mike is a smart man. I don't think anyone can say it much better than that. It comes down to a lack of communication either way. I cant even spend $50 without feeling like I need to talk to Kelly about it. It's our money not mine so the decisions on how its spent is ours not mine...I can't understand any other way of looking at it. Even for the brief period I made more than Kelly I felt that way. Me making more money just meant we had more money, not just me. Link to comment
INDY510 Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 . But it is "your" 710 ..... right??? ........ :lol: Link to comment
Z-train Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 Look, this would never have happened if you were both on the same page. Married couples work towards toward common goals. That's the whole point. For some reason she appears to think Canby is unimportant to you, that your Datsun hobby is unimportant to you and that any money seems to be available for a vacation surprise for the both of you. Now where in the wide world of sports would she get an idea like that?????? Assuming that you have made a good choice in a marriage partner, A, and that she loves and cares about you and your relationship, the only thing I can conclude is you, B, are the one who dropped the ball and failed to discuss your hobby/Canby/money properly with her. If A ... then B, and you need to talk this out so it does not happen again because it will and worse. Now, you know your partner best, so if you feel that you and her have a good understanding of each other's needs and wants then I'm at a loss to explain how your loving partner could be so thoughtless and not care to tell you what she was doing. Again you need to talk about this with her and set some rules in place so neither of you are ever in this position again. Shit happens I know, but it shouldn't happen more than once. Marriage is a voluntary giving up of your needs for the greater collective good of the both of you. If you both give, you will both get what you want. Pay attention to the above.Then when the dust has settled HERE,quietly ask a mod to delete the whole topic so this thing doesn't bite you in the ass down the road. Am i glad the 620 is my wifes truck and she wants it done. Link to comment
hang_510 Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 Finally she told me I should go to canby with rustina and she'd go to Vegas with his wife. I told her that didn't work out so well for Indy. i could make that... Was there not someone on this board who used to tell his wife, "Honey, I can spend time and money on the Datsuns, or down at the strip club. You make the choice." \/ \/ \/ (i think thats a +1 for TX too <_< ) Link to comment
hang_510 Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 Me making more money just meant we had more money, not just me. my ex took her first paycheck(as a teacher) and said this is my money, after 8ys :bye: Link to comment
izzo Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 Whats mine is mine, whats your is mine. Lulz.... Link to comment
datzenmike Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 Whats mine is mine, whats your is mine. Lulz.... I think it's "What's yours is mine and what's mine is my own." :lol: Link to comment
izzo Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 I think it's "What's yours is mine and what's mine is my own." :lol: :rofl: Could be!! been a while since i heard/said it... Link to comment
ppeters914 Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S08qANo9sSM ;) ...but at least they're in the kitchen. MLIB Link to comment
ppeters914 Posted March 19, 2011 Report Share Posted March 19, 2011 Just finished this....interesting....x3 on what datzenmike said. My wife and I celebrate 25 years this year. She hates my cars, but understands and tolerates it as my thing. We're going through a massive, stressful remodel. Money's tight...time is tight...etc...etc.... This morning we had quite the blow-up. However..... ...I got a line on a new windshield for my 411. It may be the last new 410/411 windshield in the world (or at least North America). It's gonna cost around $400...and she said buy it, you need it. Sounds like you've recovered as best you can from a shitty-never-should-have-happened-situation, but you'd better work on those communication skills so you're both on the same life track. If not, at least you tried. Pete "how many days til Canby?" Link to comment
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