datzenmike Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 I can't really see myself in that position, (thank christ) but if I was, I wouldn't go wth her. Next Christmas and every birthday, anniversary, valentines day she'd be getting pots and pans and a sandwich maker and every woman identifying cliche' thing my devious mind could come up with. All kidding asside you need better comunication wth her. Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 I got it pushed back to June 16-23. So my plan is to go to canby and buy anything I can for my car and go to Vegas with less than 5$ 3 Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 I already paid for hotel and air, I'll pack a bag full of ramen and ritz crackers 1 Link to comment
MicroMachinery Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Good for you man. Glad you're going to make it. What all do you need for your car? Let's get it running. Link to comment
DatWifey Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Be sure to keep us posted on how stoked she is when you show up in Vegas with no money!! :thumbup: Link to comment
izzo Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 since it got pushed back you shoulda asked for a refund... Link to comment
Dirk Diggler Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Be sure to keep us posted on how stoked she is when you show up in Vegas with no money!! :thumbup: Just remind her of how stoked you were when you showed up to canby with no money. Backdoor isn't enough, at least get ass to mouth out of it :thumbup: Link to comment
DISLEXICDIME Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Situations like this make me glad I have sara when we planned our wedding in june we where going to do it the sam week as canby. But when we found out that canby was that week she changed it to the week after. Almost sounds like she is being spite full . Have you not been paying her the attention she need's? =) Link to comment
qwik510 Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 So... I guess this can be good and bad news, my wife spent all my car fund money on a vacation to las Vegas for a whole week. Ok I'm a little bummed because I now don't have the fucking money I saved to get my car ready for canby. At least I het a 2300$ 7 day vacation. Oh wait, I forgot to fucking mention she booked the god Dam mother fucking trip through June 9th to June 16!!!!!!!! So not only will my car not be ready for the legendary canby meet I have been trying to go to, but noe I won't even be fucking here to go to the meet without my fucking car god dam it!!!!! " it's just a bunch of stupid old cars" she said. I might fucking strangle her right now, she made sure the tickets and hotel where non refundable. All that money I saved to complete my car is fucking gone. And she even had the balls to tell me in a excited tone and act like she is doing me some big fucking favor. This is the worst day all year so far. I'm so pissed I could shit my pants and not even care. Bummer Dude. This is why I keep my car money in cash stashed away where no one can get to it. Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Good for you man. Glad you're going to make it. What all do you need for your car? Let's get it running. Welding the floor pans, and brakes, a drivers seat and pedals, fuse box and a thread kit for all te bolts that snapped off Link to comment
izzo Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 what year is it? I think i have a fuse box i got my welder, just no way of making it down there till i get the goon running, then i can mob over and help weld up some floor pans :thumbup: Link to comment
Rustina 510 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Situations like this make me glad I have sara when we planned our wedding in june we where going to do it the sam week as canby. But when we found out that canby was that week she changed it to the week after. Almost sounds like she is being spite full . Have you not been paying her the attention she need's? =) I really do try and make her as happy as possible, I spend time with her, buy gifts, let her go o. 4 day trips with her girlfriends, I even split half of my tax return with her even though I make all the money. I'm probable going to just take today off work, go practice some welding at my brother in laws house all day so I can do everything on the car myself. I'm not 100% sure she did all this on purpose, and in a way I'm glad that she wants to spend time with me on a vaca, I'll calm down and get through it. But I'm still pretty pissed off Link to comment
skunk Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 i have a Datsun stainless steel bolt kit ( tons of bolts in different sizes ), ill see if i can find it. Link to comment
Dirk Diggler Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 What pedals do you need? I'm headed to the junk yard this weekend, ill try and pocket some for you Link to comment
Rob W. Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 I really do try and make her as happy as possible, I spend time with her, buy gifts, let her go o. 4 day trips with her girlfriends, I even split half of my tax return with her even though I make all the money. I think that may have been your problem I took $2000 or so for the truck out of this years return and she got the rest of it which was $5700 or so. She may not have done this on purpose but it was extremely insensitive for her not to ask if you had plans for that 2 grand. After your calm and collected You should let her now how much you think thus sucked and make sure she asks you about these things in the future. What if you had already contracted to purchase something with this money and then it was just gone. You could be sued for it. Any way I'm all for forgiveness but I like repentance too. Wish I could help. If you need anything from New Mexico let me know Link to comment
Guest 510kamikazifreak Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 I am glad I am not in this situation too,If I was would not be for long :lol: My wife is involved in all the car stuff,Has no complaints,we go on car events together. She knew it when I met her,and never once has complained about it :cool: We have fun with cars and our kids :cool: :D together :P Link to comment
DISLEXICDIME Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Just go to tacoma screw and buy a bolt set Since you and me go way back! I will give you a pedal set we just have to find all the partsfor it that ar scattered in my garage . Make a list of all the little things you need I probobly have them Link to comment
Eagle_Adam Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 i gotta say guys, this community we have here is freakn AWSOME!!! Rustina came to us to blow off some steam, not only did he get to do that but he is also getting support from quite a few ppl here. I have never seen a group a people come together like Ratsun does!!! :thumbup: I love this site B) 1 Link to comment
Eagle_Adam Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Rustina, i dont have any parts or real skills to help out but ill buy ya a coupla beers after dinner! Im in beaverton OR, lemme know Link to comment
banzai510(hainz) Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Why she have the money in the first place? Your supposed to have it stasched!!!!!!!Dont blame her. Hide the Money! women and money are soon departed. But just think she'll need more money to go gamble and watch the shows& eat . I say Man up but I seen alot of guys wuss out. But she has been o alot of vacations in 14 months. I have NOT since 2007. Next time in bed,I would Yank my crank in front of her and say My hand alwas felt better! That should ruin her selfesteem.But really That might not matter anyways But you got kids now. Shes in control. If she wants to leave she still got you by the balls. Thats why Iam single. Find a Fat hoochie on the side. Come home late and get some cheap purfume. and sprinkle it all over yourself. it will keep her guessing Link to comment
Skib Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 OMG I would RAGE SO HARD! if my ol lady did that I would literally fuckin loose it. Link to comment
Guest DatsuNoob Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 DIVORCE :mellow: Dont listen to Hainz, sure it'll keep her guessing. Guessing on how else to make your life miserable. If you wanna take a chunk outta her self-esteem, then perfect! Way to treat your partner in life! :rolleyes: The truth is, nothing is more important than what a woman wants... atleast to them. ALL wives/gfs will inconvenience their men for their own gain or benefit however minimal or extreme. I see it in every couple I encounter. Whether its draggin you somewhere you dont wanna go and making you pay (EX: going shopping for curtains, or spending the ENTIRE afternoon at a shopping mall shopping for things you could give two :poop: about) Or draggin you off to her bitchy gf's house for a social gathering of DB's you wouldnt piss on if they were consumed by fire. I would not go either. If she didnt consider how important things are for you, over what she wants.... THEN SHE'S JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER CHICK OUT THERE :lol: sad fact. Mine does it too, but all I have to do is freak out and go psycho once in a while about the big stuff and she tries to avoid that next time. Shit's all about compromise. Nobody gets exactly what they want in a relationship (unless you're a controlling wife), but agreeing and compromising sure beats being lonely. Good luck dude Link to comment
INDY510 Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 Get Indy to Vegas and you're all set. I got it pushed back to June 16-23. I can't make it that week.... ... .. is it too late to change the dates again?? .......... :lol: 1 Link to comment
Guest DatsuNoob Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 O ya and if you want me to weld something for ya, I'll be down that way this weekend doing a job for Skunk and Jass possibly. You're right down the street and I work for beer or Secret Aardvark Habanero Sauce with folks I have no prior arrangements with :D (I'll do your floors for 3 bottles of spicy hot goodness ;)) Link to comment
Skib Posted March 17, 2011 Report Share Posted March 17, 2011 The truth is, nothing is more important than what a woman wants... atleast to them. ALL wives/gfs will inconvenience their men for their own gain or benefit however minimal or extreme. I see it in every couple I encounter. Whether its draggin you somewhere you dont wanna go and making you pay (EX: going shopping for curtains, or spending the ENTIRE afternoon at a shopping mall shopping for things you could give two :poop: about) Or draggin you off to her bitchy gf's house for a social gathering of DB's you wouldnt piss on if they were consumed by fire. sorry bud but I dont roll like that. most recent example was last night, her friend was going to some venue for her Bday and she wanted me to come with. now normally thats not a problem, I enjoy hanging out with the GF. but I asked what was going down there and she says "dubstep"............ I stared at her for a few seconds and said "yeeaaaaah.... no. I fucking hate dubstep" the last time she wanted me to come with her to hang out with a friend it was at a lame bar with her annoying friend from out of town. so what to do? make sure theres pool and beer there before I go and then I called a Ratsuner up to come shoot some pool with me when I got there :lol: Link to comment
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