Hooligan, I don't see anything on the Ratsun.net FB page (I'm a moderator) like what you described. But if you'd like me to look into it and handle it, just PM me here... I don't know what moderator you 'might' be having an issue with, but I'm curious...
As far as the Ratsun.net vs Nwdatsuns thing... it's no competition. I love both. You just have two different groups of people who disagree about the way things should be handled, so they went opposite ways. I've been on Ratsun for somewhere around 4 years I think and I can tell you it's changed a lot. A lot of the old guard is gone leaving the forum to a very select group of people. Hell, I don't even frequent the forum anymore like I used to. Maybe I'm just bored, or maybe it's because I'm busy. Hell, I don't really know. But still, I love Ratsun..it's a great community.
Stick around man, give it some time. I know you seem to be frustrated a bit with the way it's been going, but that's just the way of the world sometimes. This site is great and full of information. It has a lot to offer YOU. Even if you don't post, stick around. I promise you won't regret it.