Yeah sorry, its the farthest one forward on the passenger-side fender well. The wiring diagram tries to mimic the location of stuff in real life. I dont know if you can remove it, but I know mine is shot. It opens and closes about 500 times a second and none of my reverse lights work. I have the bulbs unscrewed until I can find a replacement.
If you find out you can unplug it, Id love your old one :)