bonvo Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 6 weeks ago my grandma passed and yesterday at the age of 49 my dad had a massive heart attack and we lost him at about 3 in the afternoon im at a total loss for words and devastated im so fucking done with this year Quote Link to comment
Str8_69 Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Dude that's horrible.. condolences to you and your family 1 Quote Link to comment
a.d._510_n_ok Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 he looks like a character, bonvo, the kinda guy who always kept you laughing. sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment
72240z Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Shit man my condolences, there is nothing that can be said or done with so much loss. I lost my mother at 65 earlier this year, it will never not suck. Just focus on getting through this with your family and time will take care of the rest. 1 Quote Link to comment
tr8er Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Fuck death. My grandpa died this year too. Inspired me to take my family camping and hiking, which was his favorite thing to do when he was younger. Basically it was a fuckload of loss, with a silver-lining of life is fleeting, do more of what matters. And there was some positive in the midst of all of it. Right now, I hope you have family around, and if so be there with them. I'm sorry you had no warning. I can't imagine. Quote Link to comment
DatMo Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 I can relate with family loss and I hope all gets better. When you hit the bottom, the only place left to go is up. Quote Link to comment
MikeRL411 Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Deepest condolences. "Gone but not forgotten" is the word. Draw the family together and remember the good times. No substitute, but it really does help. Quote Link to comment
red76datsun Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Sorry to hear about your losses. Quote Link to comment
captaingamez Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 So sorry for your loss, I lost my grandmother that helped to raise me earlier this year. My father has had 3 heart attacks (not massive ones), and he is 57. Quote Link to comment
SlottedMagz Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss my heat goes out to you and your family Quote Link to comment
datzenmike Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss jon. Grief is a terrible experience to go through so know that talking about him with family and friends is probably the best cure for the heartache you feel now. Celebrate his memory with words and funny stories as often as you want and he will never be far away. Never fear to say his name in conversation. Life does get easier. Quote Link to comment
Z-train Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Been there.Dad at 65 and Mom 18 months later at 63.My dad never understood the "gearhead" thing.And yes,it does blow. Quote Link to comment
WICKED JESTER Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 i lost my little brother to cancer in 2012 he was 36 death sucks you have my condolences bonvo Quote Link to comment
Tristin Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 This is such a badass picture... this is how I would remember him. Crazy enough to put a CRX inside a truck. 4 Quote Link to comment
Bradinnes Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 So Sorry Bonvo. The death of someone so close to you is horrible, especially being your father. It offers no consolation that it was sudden because there's no real chance to say goodbye, no sense of closure. Just remember the good times and judging from the pictures there's a lot. Keep him in your mind and he'll live on in your heart. Surround yourself with family and friends. They say there are 5 stages to grieving. Anger is right near the top. eventually you get to number 5, acceptance and then things will look different. Just treasure the time you had with your dad. It's priceless. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. RIP. 1 Quote Link to comment
spitznoz Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 condolences to you and your family Quote Link to comment
bananahamuck Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 i'm am sorry for your loss. He was so young . Quote Link to comment
ArchetypeDatsun Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Be strong Bonvo he's in a better place condolences to you and your family I know how it feels to lose family I lost my favorite uncle 2 years ago and my cousin which was like brother to me last year I miss them everyday but things will get better man! Quote Link to comment
metalmonkey47 Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 RIP. Sorry to hear that man. I know things are rough on both sides, so text me if you need someone to talk to, if you still have my number. You can always get it from me if you need to. Quote Link to comment
HRH Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Sorry to hear it Bonvo. Remember the good times. :( Quote Link to comment
Guest Rick-rat Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 So sorry for your loss Jon Quote Link to comment
]2eDeYe Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Wow, sorry Bonvo... :( He sounds like a great Dad to have had around, for the time you had him. Quote Link to comment
dat77sun Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 sorry for your loss jon, condolences to you and your family Quote Link to comment
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